The cosmic trick to finding your best friends, according to your zodiac sign
Have you ever noticed that all your friends seem to be born at the same time of year? Consider the universe reminding you that astrological compatibility isn't just about romantic attraction: The zodiac signs that make best friends are actually cosmic soulmates, and there are many ways to use your chart astrological to find them.
The simplest method? Look for people who have the same astrological element as you. The signs are coupled into four groups of three called the triplicities, which refer to our temperament: the fire signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius), the earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn), the air signs ( Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) and the water signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces). And, as astrologer and psychic Rachel Lang points out, signs of similar polarity tend to get along well with each other.
“Air signs pair well with fire signs because they are signs that exhibit more yang, outward-directed energy, and extroverted energy,” says Lang. "Earth and water signs are yin signs, inward-directed and receptive. They tend to get along well with each other."
His other pro tip? Look at the sign that rules your 11th house of astrology. “The 11th house is the house of our social network and friendship connections,” explains Lang. "If you want to know more about the types of friends you attract or the signs you might get along with, look at the sign that rules your 11th house in your birth chart." Below, Lang breaks down the three zodiac signs that make the best friends for you, based on your sign. Find out why you are cosmically likely to get along.
The 3 Zodiac Signs That Make Best Friends for You, Depending on Your Sign
Aries: Aquarius, Leo, and Sagittarius
Aries, the fire sign, is attracted to Leo and Sagittarius, the fire signs, and vice versa. The cardinal sign Aries carries a go-getter energy, and as the first sign on the wheel of the zodiac, it tends to be the first to take on a project. Leo and Sagittarius keep Aries moving and motivated. “The element of fire is linked to action, passion and enthusiasm,” says Lang. “Fire signs know how to inspire each other.”
Finally, Aquarius knows how to stoke the embers of Aries the right way. Aquarius is an activist at heart, and he's inspired by Aries' ability to take action. Likewise, Aries respects the fact that Aquarians are so forward-thinking and progressive; While Aries can be trendsetters, Aquarians already know what will be in style in the future.
Taurus: Virgo, Capricorn and Pisces
Taurus and Pisces have a bond linked to their love of feelings. For Taurus, it's about tactile feelings and the appreciation of the sensations and pleasures of the physical world. For Pisces, it's about intuitive feelings and the ability to psychically feel the emotions of others. Sensitive Taurus is able to make Pisces aware of reality, and Pisces encourages Taurus to dream bigger than ever, which is a great balance.
Taurus also feels comfortable with Capricorn and Virgo. Besides bonding over their practical nature, Taurus admires their Earth siblings for their work ethic (as a fixed sign, Taurus tends to be a little slower than ambitious Capricorn and perfectionist Virgo ).
Gemini: Libra, Aquarius, and Aries
Air signs are intellectuals, but Gemini and Aquarius are perhaps the most intelligent of the zodiac signs, in completely different ways. Geminis are born researchers who love to express their discoveries, and Aquarius is a mad genius, who envisions concepts that go over everyone's heads. But don't overlook Libra's role in completing the air sign clique; Libra loves to analyze both sides of the story critically, and will have long debates with Gemini about it.
When Gemini doesn't feel like talking (it's rare, but it happens), they'll find a good ally in Aries. Aries is as quick to action as Gemini is to reflection, and both hate taking things too seriously. Their sense of playfulness keeps them close.
Cancer: Scorpio, Pisces and Taurus
Cancer loves to cook excellent meals, create cozy environments, and cultivate a comfortable little life. Taurus likes to be the recipient of these things. They can really snuggle up together while everyone else is floating around spending quiet nights watching movies and drinking good wine.
Likewise, Pisces and Scorpios go to Cancer for a cup of tea and a listening ear. While all water signs are deep in their feelings, Cancer has the ability to be generous and present.
Leo: Sagittarius, Aries, and Libra
Leo reigns supreme over the fire signs, the Hollywood star of their circle. Aries acts as their best publicist, the Samantha Jones of the group who can make things happen. Sagittarius is Leo's advisor, the person to ask for wisdom. Aries and Leo can sometimes compete for the spotlight, and Sagittarius can get frustrated if Leo doesn't follow their advice, but ultimately they recognize Leo as their fierce leader, knowing that Leo has great ability warmth and generosity.
And Libra? Libra appears from time to time as Leo's advocate, ready to fight on their behalf at a moment's notice.
Virgo: Capricorn, Taurus, and Cancer
Once again, Cancer is a wonderful partner for an Earth sign. When Virgo has had a hard day working, overanalyzing, and shutting herself up, Cancer can be a great comfort.
And Virgo loves her Earth companions because they can be an extreme grounding force. Taurus can tell Virgo to take off her shoes and relax, because work will be here tomorrow. Capricorn can remind her that she is closer to her goals than she thinks, and that she shouldn't get hung up on all the details.
Libra: Aquarius, Gemini, and Leo
To summarize, Libra likes other air signs because they can discuss different ideas together. Gemini and Libra relate to each other because they both care about duality. Gemini, as a twin sign, seeks to mirror others, while Libra always seeks balance. Aquarius, on the other hand, encourages Libra to look at the big picture rather than "this side or that side."
And while Libra acts as Leo's advocate, the latter brings a sense of fun and glamor to Libra's life. Libra, invested in beauty and romance, is swept away by Leo's style and star power.
Scorpio: Cancer, Pisces, and Virgo
Scorpio appreciates depth more than anything in the world, and its relationship with Pisces and Cancer reflects this. Small sentences are not allowed here.
“They have a way of communicating and building relationships that goes beyond words,” Lang says. "They pick up on each other's nonverbal signals and cues. These signs become close friends because they know how to speak from the heart, and they can have deep conversations."
Additionally, Virgo and Scorpio find each other attractive because they tease each other's fun side. Scorpio pushes Virgo to embrace danger and hedonism. And Virgo warns Scorpio to think before taking risks.
Sagittarius: Aries, Leo and Libra
Ultimately, Aries and Leo need Sagittarius more than they'll ever want to admit. While Aries and Leo bicker and bring out their competitive sides, Sagittarius is calm and complacent. Sagittarius is a wonderful mediator, pleasant and appreciated by his fiery companions.
And like Leo, Sagittarius pairs well with Libra. While Libra can get bogged down trying to balance things in their never-ending life, Sagittarius can solve their problems with a simple line or observation. When they both find a moment, they make great vacation friends and are able to explore the beautiful world together.Aries
Capricorn: Virgo, Taurus and Scorpio
Capricorn and Scorpio understand each other because they share a penchant for power, with completely different approaches to it. Scorpio pursues their goals with an underground approach, being able to get what they want by understanding others on a deep psychological level. Capricorn works just as hard to climb the career ladder with ease.
As for Taurus and Virgo, "Earth signs have good relationships with each other because they understand the importance of the practical aspects of life," says Lang. “They know that we are spiritual beings, having a human experience, and they value that human experience.”
Aquarius: Libra, Gemini, and Sagittarius
Again, air signs like to float around each other and have a friendship that doesn't need to be constantly controlled. In other words, these are friends who might have Zoom dates, but are likely having ongoing, unstructured, paragraph-long conversations over text. With their love of freedom, it is rare to bring all three signs together in the same place.
Sagittarius understands this. As a wanderer and philosopher of the zodiac wheel, Sagittarius associates with Aquarius' aura of wisdom. Both of them can engage in existential dialogues for hours.
Pisces: Cancer, Scorpio and Taurus.
Pisces likes Taurus because the Pisces Twins can feel completely divided when making decisions, and they rely on Taurus' candor to give them unbiased advice. Scorpio and Pisces are very bonded by their love of the occult (you'll catch them reading each other's tarot cards from time to time). And Pisces and Cancers are connected by empathy, that deep understanding of how a person feels. Because what is friendship if not that?
