Create a solo space in a shared house
Roommates and living communities can be a lot of fun. Big communal feasts, an extra person to walk the dog and always someone to listen to your worries at midnight. Still, there are definitely times when roommates can be super taxing, especially after weeks where leaving the house has become a little more difficult. So when your roommates are testing your composure and you can't escape to the nearest coffee shop, here are some top tips for carving out a solo escape in a shared space...
Design a space
Most people who share homes have their bedroom as an escape sanctuary and while we can't always spend 24 hours cooped up there, it's helpful to know that there's definitely a private refuge for those times when you wanted some solitude. Now is the time to make your bedroom as welcoming as possible for yourself. Clean it, remove the excess and try to create different areas in this room to do what you love. Have a space for reading, another for work, and another for sleeping if physical dimensions allow.
Noise canceling headphones
If you're irritated by the constant soundscape of other people's presence, noise-canceling headphones might just be your smartest investment yet. Even if your roommates are blasting music, you can put on your headphones and enjoy the peace and serenity.
Make agreements
If you're struggling to combine work, play and rest in a room of your own, it may be time to divide up different areas of the house for times when people need to be engaged in certain tasks. For example, after breakfast you could agree to use the kitchen table as a workspace for a few hours or ask if you can claim a space in the shared living room for a few quiet hours and take turns if necessary. The important thing is that everyone feels like they have equal use of the space in a way that meets their needs to avoid conflict.
Get up early or go to bed late
Depending on each person's pace and schedule, it is certainly possible to also create free space and time.
Take your battles
One of the best tips when it comes to sharing space and difficult times is to choose your battles wisely. Sure, outbursts and harsh words come with the territory, but open communication is always your best friend. Smooth out irritations and annoyances early, before they get bigger, and don't make mountains out of molehills if you can avoid it.
Are you struggling with a shared apartment at the moment? Let's combine tips and best practices to reduce stress levels and carve out the space we need to thrive.
