How do I find the stone I need?
“There are thousands of crystals on the planet.
How do I know which one is best for me?
I hear this question every day and you're probably wondering the same thing!
I completely understand your frustrations. Identifying which stone truly supports your goals by helping you heal your emotional wounds is delicate work that requires attention and experience. It has nothing to do with magic or superstitions. It's a question of frequencies and methods of discovering them.
On Azenty , you can find your stone either by intuition by letting yourself be guided through the photos and texts:
- presenting THE stones and their properties ,
- detailing a thematic well - being which particularly concerns you,
- depending on your intention (happiness, love, money, etc.),
- according to the well done research ,
- depending on your sign astrological ,
- according to the chakra to work,
- depending on your month of birth or your Crystal theme
- either by contact with our advisors via email or chat.
By following the advice given on this site, you can be assured of quality advice.
Quality before quantity
In terms of efficiency, it is better to invest from time to time in a stone of good weight and good quality rather than accumulating a multitude of small stones of average quality which, in the end, will represent the same budget, without satisfying you as to the results obtained. You will never regret the acquisition of a beautiful stone because it will effectively accompany your well-being process throughout your life.
How to choose a stone that really suits us and brings us real well-being?
Choosing a stone based on intuition
The most classic way to choose a stone is to let your feeling even if you think you have no intuition!
Start from the principle that a stone should not leave you indifferent. It must awaken a sensation or feeling in you. It may seem beautiful, astonishing, or give you a strange impression. No matter what effect it produces. You have to take into consideration the fact that it calls out to something in you, even if it cannot be put into words.
If so, you are already on the right track…
Let yourself be carried away by the colors, shapes, textures... and above all, don't think!
You must act with the spontaneity of a little child. Go where it tells you to go, without any analysis. Let your eyes wander through the photos of this or that stone. Wanting to look at a stone (among many others) is already a sign in itself. This is a spontaneous reaction linked to the natural resonance existing between your body and this stone.
By choosing a stone in this way, you are responding instinctively what your body desires. It is therefore advisable to let yourself go towards the stones which attract you (or which appeal to you strongly) without worrying about their functions, their uses, putting aside the mind or the need to understand.
Don't choose your stone at random : We often say that it is the stone that chooses us, and not the other way around.
Choose your stone according to its color
There are stones of different colors and each color has its own meaning. If you can't let your intuition guide you, and you're hesitating between different stones, you must first understand what each color of stone means:
Lithotherapy joins chromotherapy by attributing properties to stones relating to their colors.
As they are closely related, I will discuss color symbolism, chromotherapy and the chakra principle together.
The chakras represent the energy centers of the body. There are seven main ones, linked to the seven colors of the rainbow. Each is an immaterial sphere with an average diameter of approximately 7 centimeters.
Choose your stone according to your astrological sign
If you really still don't know which stone to choose , you can always rely on your date of birth . Indeed, depending on your date of birth, you will be able to find your lucky stone.
Yes, because each astrological sign has its favorite crystals . Several different stones can therefore be associated with each of the signs of the zodiac and it often happens that the same crystal corresponds to several signs.
Wearing a stone associated with your astrological sign will therefore tend to increase its effects tenfold. Do not hesitate to consult our astrology pages on the stones of the zodiac signs .
Choose your stone according to the chakra to work on
Each chakra is typically associated with one or more stones . The premise of working with chakra stones or crystals is that each stone aims to magnify or balance the chakra through its energy center .
Thus, we will use a Heart Chakra stone to work on the fourth chakra.
The choice of a healing crystal is made by considering several attributes of the stones . For example, its energetic qualities , its color , and personal or intuitive resonance.
According to these Virtues
The stone can be chosen by thematic . In fact, each rock is associated with certain properties , which are particularly linked to it. Of course, it is very likely that several stones correspond to you and address your problems. To make your choice, focus on what really matters to you. Indeed, through personal reflection, highlight the points that you would like to improve, whether physical or mental, the wounds that you would like to fade or the abilities that you would like to acquire. The choice of your crystal depends above all on what your deep self desires, so you must connect first and foremost with yourself to then be able to establish a connection with the stone. For example, people with a chronic fear of abandonment will turn to rhodonite, which treats childhood trauma. For naturally defiant people, carnelian will calm their fears. There are a multitude of stones each presenting their own characteristics : it's up to you to find the one that suits you.
The path of life
If the options mentioned above have not convinced you, there remains one last solution for choosing your stone: trust the life path. From your name, your first name and your date of birth, the life path highlights the 8 stones which are linked to you, and which correspond to you better than anyone. Each stone reflects a special trait of your character, and reveals who you really are. The life path therefore allows a very precise analysis of the stones which are most intimately linked to you. Thus, it highlights which levers must be unlocked and which obstacles must be overcome.